Master/Sir seeking sub/little - m4w - 50 (wilmington nc)
age : 50
In My search for a true sub to complement my Dominate side here,I have noticed so many women (newbie subs) have encountered Men whom CLAIM to be a Dominate Alpha Male
Therefore im reaching out to lend a hand to help what may be the True sub i seek from making contact with me by shedding a little light on the difference in
A DOMINATE ALPHA MALE,,,,,and A DOMINEER
I do not have to educate you on the use of ( Restraints...Bondage....Discipline..
Power Exchange....Safe Words, or any form of Servitude that a True sub divulges to her DOM)......but to help you in your search being new to the Lifestyle?
Take the time to learn the difference in the Man that seeks your submissiveness
A Dominant will encourage you and build your confidence over time; a Domineer will demand your submission now and won't wait for you to get to know them, why should they you're only an object to them.
A Dominant will spend hours, days or weeks talking to you establishing your boundaries and limits before playing with you; a Domineer couldn't care less what your limits and boundaries are they see you as a new conquest an object to be used and discarded when the next shiny object shows up.
A Dominant will respect your limits and push you to the edge and maybe just a tad past them; a Domineer is only concerned with what they want you to do regardless of what your limits are.
A Dominant will insist on your safety and do everything they can to be prepared for anything that may go wrong; a Domineer is only concerned that their needs are met and if you're bleeding or broken or terrified when they're satisfied who cares there's hospitals you can go to, just pick up the phone and call one after they're gone and have an alibi in case the cops want you to press charges.
A Dominant will respect your safe words and honor them; a Domineer couldn't care less if you feel scared or are in too much pain for you to handle they're having fun and that's all that matters.
A Dominant will take care of you after the scene is through making sure you're ok; a Domineer is done when they're done why should they care if you're all right or not they got what they wanted
A Dominant will encourage you to learn all you can about the lifestyle; a Domineer doesn't want you learning more then they do because you may find out what kind of abuser they are.
A Dominant will listen to what you have to say, they care as much about what you're feeling emotionally as physically; a Domineer doesn't care what you're feeling and if you have anything other then yes Master/Mistress to say then keep it to yourself they're not interested.
A Dominant cares if you're not feeling well and won't push you to scene; a Domineer wants to play and wants to play now who cares if you're not well just don't throw up on them or you'll be sorry
A Dominant wants the entire you heart, body and soul; a Domineer couldn't care about your heart or soul all they want is your body to use and abuse as they see fit, like it matters to them if you fall in love and are heart broken when you don't hear from them till they're ready to play, why should they worry if it tares you apart doing things you don't want to do just as long as they're satisfied
This only lightly brushes on what a Dominant is but for the new submissive it's a cautionary insight into the differences between someone who will care for and about you and someone who is just out to get what they want.
I hope you read and absorbed all that i had to share....and i wish you a Safe Journey in your willing to submit and realize how a true sub is *Special*
I would love to find that true sub,and if you care to chat drop me a reply
but if nothing else? I hope i have opened your eyes
Sir in Waiting
- do NOT contact me with unsolicited services or offers